Author Archives: A Dreamer

Refinance closed last week, all the various and sundry creditors have been getting their money and I feel like the biggest damn weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Set aside for taxes and medical costs are fully funded. House … Continue reading →

I. Am. TIRED. Over the past month we have done a spectacular, massive clear out of this place. The appraisal is tomorrow afternoon. Refinance closing is scheduled for the 28th. My consumer/medical debt will be clear. There will be house … Continue reading →

Very fucking slowly, but it’s going. We have scheduled the junk haulers to come in 19 days. I am actively working with the mortgage broker on the refinance. Gonna get this house clean and my finances unfucked once and for … Continue reading →

But, I did it and once I just opened my mouth and said, “Wanna get some cash out of the house instead of sitting on a big illiquid asset” – he said sure, sounds like a great idea. Then I … Continue reading →

But some things are good for 2023. I’ve exercised every damn day this year. I’ve gotten all the daily to-do’s around the house done every damn day, and managed to do some extra stuff. Money? I. Am. Fucked. 7K dental … Continue reading →

And I am effin’ broke, the house is a mess, and I’m out of shape. But it’s a new month and I’m gonna give it all another go.

So, yeah, not great, but hey, new week and new month and I can always do better. Health-wise, 300 points may have been a stretch yet again…but still beat 150. House wise…OMG, terrible, but we’ve got a three day weekend … Continue reading →

Don’t get fired or laid off Hit the basics around the house, cause it’s probably gonna be a long work day. Anything extra is a bonus. 32 Fitbit activity points Don’t spend money on dumb shit I think it’s doable!

Tried to be extra mindful today, but it also turned into a bit of a bad brain day, so I ended up being very mindful of how bad my brain is. Came into the weekend thinking I would have to … Continue reading →

Overall fair to middling, but that happens. Health! Going for 300 activity points may have been a bit of a stretch, but maybe I’ll take a walk later today. But I am very well hydrated! House…was hard this week. Not … Continue reading →